GAMES

I don't really understand about games.
As in like why winning is so impt in games?
If there is presents/incentives, I understand the motivation.

But let's say if only the losing person has to do forfeit, then why?
Why people is afraid of losing.
How come we must always win?
In everything, when someone wins, someone else is bound to lose.
How come it is wrong to lose?
People can't be always good at all times.
Why they can't see that?
Hmm